Self Help from an Insomniac
Hi! Thank you for writing this letter. I am INFP, like listening, and hate talking. I will be a lawyer on Tuesday but am also job searching like you. When I wrote to Penelope for advice, her first concern was money.
If you have student debt, my suggestion is to find work where you listen to clients who can pay you well. This can be in advertising, business development, consulting, finance, research, sales, tutoring, etc.
If you have no debt like me, you can work in more fields. Here is a web page listing the jobs that need active listening skills: http://careers.collegetoolkit.com/career-search/criteria/skills/activelistening.aspx
Elephants have big ears and can listen well. :)