Monday, December 29, 2014

I want to know you

"bedtime story:"

"i want to know your birthday" April 7

"and your parents jobs" retired military officers

"and if you ever heard them fighting or having sex" yes

"and if you love your siblings" yes

"and the worst fight you’ve ever gotten into" about a girl hitting him

"and if you like one sibling more than the other" no

"and what you wanted to be when you grew up when you were seven" read a lot

"and your dream vacation" travel the world 

"and the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you" defecate on a bus 

"and if you’ve been to therapy" no

"and if it helped" not applicable 

"and the hardest thing you’ve experienced" being left by my father

"and how you overcame it" prayed to God and supported my mother 

"and if you like what you see when you look in the mirror" yes

"and if you think appearances matter in a relationship or at all" yes for a man, not for me

"and your favorite movie" Up

"and which books changed your life" Bible, Purpose Driven Life, Conversations with God

"and the hardest you’ve ever cried" my father left us

"and which grandparent you loved the most" my maternal grandfather

"and if the words “we need to talk” make you sick to your stomach" no

"and why" the truth will set us free 

"and which holiday is your favorite" Christmas 



"and which season" spring

"and which color" black

"and if you like rain" no

"and if you’re scared of dying" no

"and if you believe in god" yes

"and if you have allergies" no

"and to what" none

"and what your favorite food is" chocolate 

"and restaurant" Pancake House

"and if you like to cook" no

"and whether or not you care about cleanliness" yes

"and what your political views are" centrist to libertarian

"and if you’re a feminist" yes

"and your favorite flower" sunflower

"and song" Happy birthday!

"and if you’d rather own a cat or a dog" cat

"and if you’d shave off all your hair to give it to a little girl going through chemotherapy" yes

"and where you’d like to live" Manila, Tagaytay, Baguio, Dumaguete, Davao, Washington, London, San Francisco, and New York

"and honeymoon" Palawan and Paris

"and what kind of gum and candy you like" chocolate

"and what you act like when you’re mad" stay silent

"and if you’d rather someone buy you silver or gold jewelry or neither" neither

"and what clique you were in in high school" nerd

"and what you think your spirit animal is" cat

"and which flower you’d be" sunflower

"and who you admire" my mother

"and which traits you wish were more dominant" courage

"and if you ever worry you’re a shitty person" yes

"and what hurt you the most" my father left us

"and why you ever thought you were worthless" can't talk to people beyond "hello"

"and how someone can make you feel better when you’re sad" smile at me or say "it will get better" or hug me if we're close

"and if you prefer hugs or kisses" hugs

"and what your house looks like" small house in the city where I can walk to everywhere

"and what your dream car is" electric car by Tesla

"and which celebrity you think lives the most tragic life" Lindsay Lohan

"and why you think people become so cold" pain, hurt, and suffering

"and what you think about nature vs nurture" nurture trumps nature

"and if you believe in heaven" yes

"and aliens" yes

"and mermaids"  no

"and reincarnation" yes

"and the bible" yes

"and which feeling is your least favorite" anger

"and what was the best day you ever had" graduated from college, got my transcript from law school, and finished the bar exam

"and what would be the best day" pass the bar, get married, have children

"and if you see yourself as the protector or one who needs protecting" needs protecting

"and how you deal with your pain" reflect, pray

"and what you would do if you had 100 million dollars" invest, live on interest, share with family, give to church and charities,

"and if you think wealth affects people’s morals" yes

"and what good you think writing is" clears my thoughts

"and if you could do it all over, would you" I should have not lied about my last semester in Georgetown



"and what would you change" I should have taken a leave of absence

"and what mistake was your biggest" not telling the truth to my parents about not attending classes

"and which language you wish you spoke fluently" Ilocano

"and how many people you’ve loved" none romantically

"and if you loved the person you lost your virginity to" not applicable

"and if you realize you’re remarkable" yes

"and what your enneagram is" I don't know

"and how you think we could improve the education system" let children learn what they want.

"and what you think of people who commit suicide" they're in a lot of pain.

"and if you think they’re selfish" no for most because they're in pain

"and what you say to them before they did it if you could" You're in pain. Let's do something to make your pain better.

"and what your favorite memory of your childhood is" reading, playing, and watching

"and how you take your tea" milk tea

"or if you prefer coffee" no

"and when you last wrote someone a handwritten letter" this Christmas to family

"and what the best gift you ever received was" forgiveness

"and what the best piece of advice was" Health is wealth. God never sleeps. 

"and when the last time you cried was" this month

"and if you’re competitive about board games" yes

"and which is your favorite" mahjong

"and if you feel pressured to settle down" yes

"and what you notice first in a person" smile if they're happy

"and what your top three pet peeves are" cruelty, dishonesty, shamelessness

"and if you have any phobias" pistanthrophobia, fear of trusting people

"and what you’ve always wanted to do but don’t have the courage to go through with" marry and have children

"and what you do when you feel overwhelmingly sad" pray, cry

"and if you ski" no

"and if plastic surgery was 100% safe and painless, would you get it"  no

"and where" none

"and why" not applicable

"and where you think home is" Montgomery and Taguig

"and if you think politeness is important" yes

"and what you think of indecisive people" like me 

"and if you think there’s ever a reason to go to war" yes, self-defense 

"and something that scares you" abandonment 

"and if you believe in therapy" yes 

"and what you want in life" happiness 

"and what you look for in a partner" faith, hope, and love 

"and what you want to change about yourself" have courage 

"and about the world" faith, hope, and love

"and who you want to be" be faithful and hopeful

"and who you are." be love.

"just tell me who you are.” Joy

"—I want to know you by @thewastedgeneration"


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